How to Choose and Use Tarot Cards
There's something about walking into a room full of tarot and oracle decks for the first time. Your eyes go everywhere—there are so many beautiful covers, so many different styles, and you have absolutely no idea where to start. We see it all the time at Eternal Spirit. Someone walks in, looks at the shelves, and says "I want to get into cards but I don't know which ones are for me." Sound familiar?
Here's the thing—there's no wrong answer. The deck that catches your eye? That's probably the one. But let's walk through it together so you feel really confident when you pick up your first (or next) deck.
Tarot vs Oracle—What's the Difference?
This is the question everyone asks, and it's a good one. Tarot decks follow a set structure—78 cards, split between the Major Arcana (the big life themes) and the Minor Arcana (the everyday stuff). That structure has been around for centuries, which means the meanings stay pretty consistent from deck to deck. There's something grounding about that. You learn the framework once and it carries you through every deck you pick up.
Oracle cards are a completely different vibe. A deck might have 30 cards or 70—the creator decides. Themes range from angels and animals to crystals and nature. There's no fixed structure, which means they tend to feel more intuitive and open right from the start. A lot of beginners find oracle cards less intimidating because of that freedom. You pull a card, read the message, and trust what comes up.
Honestly? Many of our customers end up with both. Tarot for the deeper dives, oracle for quick daily guidance. But you don't need to think about that yet—just start with whatever draws you in.
Choosing Your First Deck
This is the fun part. And the most important rule is really simple: go with what speaks to you.
When you look at the artwork on a deck, does something in you respond? Does it make you curious, or feel a little spark of recognition? Trust that. Your intuitive pull towards certain imagery matters way more than what anyone else recommends. The deck you genuinely connect with is the one you'll actually use—not the one that sits on a shelf looking pretty.
Maybe you're drawn to angel and celestial imagery—that's gorgeous and really comforting for a lot of people. Maybe nature and crystal themes light you up. Perhaps something bold and artistic grabs your attention. Whatever it is, that pull is telling you something. Follow it.
If you're brand new to all of this, our beginner tarot collection is a beautiful place to start. These decks come with clear guidebooks and accessible imagery that helps you learn without feeling overwhelmed. And if tarot feels like too much structure right off the bat, browse our oracle card collection—there's something in there for everyone.
Getting to Know Your Cards
Once you've got your deck, there's this lovely period of just… getting acquainted. Don't rush it.
A lot of readers like to cleanse their new deck before first use—kind of like giving it a fresh start. You might place it near selenite overnight, or pass it through the smoke of Palo Santo or sage. Some people leave their cards under moonlight, especially during a full moon. Others just hold the deck and set a quiet intention. Whatever feels right for you—do that.
Then spend some time shuffling through without any pressure. Really look at each card. Notice the colours, the details, how different images make you feel. Read the guidebook that comes with your deck, but also pay attention to your own impressions—they're just as valid. Sometimes you'll look at a card and know exactly what it's telling you before you even check the book. That's your intuition doing its thing, and it's wonderful.
If you love writing things down, keeping a journal alongside your deck is a beautiful practice. Jot down your first impressions, what you notice, how meanings shift over time. That record becomes something really special.
Your First Readings
Start simple. A daily single-card pull is one of the best things you can do as a beginner.
Each morning, shuffle your deck and ask for guidance about the day ahead. Draw one card. That's it. Throughout the day, notice how its themes show up in your experiences. Maybe you pull a card about patience and discover that's exactly what the day needed. Maybe you get one about courage and find yourself saying yes to something you normally wouldn't. Over weeks and months, this simple practice builds your confidence and teaches you how your cards speak to you personally.
When single cards start feeling natural, try a three-card spread. Past, Present, Future is a classic—it gives you a beautiful snapshot of how a situation is unfolding. Situation, Action, Outcome is another good one for practical guidance. Play around until you find what clicks.
Creating a Space for Your Practice
The environment where you read your cards matters. It doesn't need to be fancy—it just needs to feel like yours.
Maybe it's a corner of your bedroom with a salt lamp glowing softly. Maybe you've got a few crystals nearby—amethyst for intuition, clear quartz for clarity. A special cloth to lay your cards on. A candle. Whatever makes you feel calm and focused. None of it is essential, but creating a space you love sitting in makes a real difference to your readings.
Store your cards in a tarot bag or box when you're not using them. Keep them away from moisture and direct sunlight, and handle them with clean hands. These small rituals might seem like nothing, but they honour the role your cards play in your life. Every now and then, cleanse them again—after intense readings or whenever the energy feels a bit heavy. A few moments with selenite or sage smoke refreshes everything.
Growing from Here
As you get more comfortable, you'll probably feel drawn to explore further. Deepen your knowledge with tarot books that speak to where you're at. Try reading for trusted friends—their feedback helps you discover things about your reading style you might not notice on your own. And when you're ready, explore other divination tools like pendulums or runes—each one offers a different way into your intuition.
There's no rush with any of this. Your practice unfolds at exactly the right pace.
Your Cards Are Waiting
Every reader whose work you admire was once exactly where you are now—holding their first deck, feeling that mix of excitement and uncertainty, wondering what the cards might show them. Your cards aren't fortune-telling tools. They're mirrors. They help you notice patterns, see possibilities, and connect more deeply with that quiet knowing you already carry inside.
At Eternal Spirit, we've been walking alongside card readers since 1997. Whether you're choosing your very first deck or adding to a growing collection, we're here for it. Pop into the shop, have a browse, and see what calls to you. We love this stuff—and we love helping you find your way in.
